What happens when you ask for what you want?

What happens when you ask for what you want?

New Year's Eve in Asheville, NC

.... Well, you might actually get it.

Last week, my daughter was frustrated because her paycheck was unexpectedly small and her boss was not offering a holiday bonus of any kind. She complained to me about this and I encouraged her to write a simple straightforward email to her boss, asking for what she wanted - a holiday bonus of $500. I advised her to take out all the softening language like "would you possibly consider" and just ASK.

She sent off the email and waited, without much hope or expectation.

She was shocked when a few hours later, her boss replied and gave her exactly what she had asked for!

Wild things happen when we ask for what we want!



Of course, it's also possible that you won't get what you want - but the simple act of

ASKING is a gift - to your higher self.

What could you ask for - RIGHT NOW?

And here's an example of me doing some asking: (we'll see what happens!)

Want to go to India and/or Bali with me in March?

I would love to find one or two people who would like to go to India and/or Bali with me in March, with me as tour guide and embodiment coach. I would put together a personalized seven to ten day itinerary for us, as well as daily guided practice sessions. In India, we would visit my two "spiritual homes" in Rishikesh (both ashrams) and in Bali, I would want to take you to this incredible permaculture eco-resort that I found (where I was going to host the eco-erotic retreat that got cancelled). During the trip, we will surely have some adventures, and spend time focused on personal growth and learning through embodiment, communication and intimacy.

I am free for the entire month of March so far, so the dates are flexible at this point. I would love to be compensated about $200/day for my guidance. Email me back if this interests you and let's chat!

A snapshot of how my 2024 began

New Year's Day 2024 - Three Sirens in Bed - Photo by Josh Saxton

I just can't even express how grateful I am for these two women in my life - Lauren and Allison - and I am so blessed that I got to wake up and cuddle with both of them on New Year's Day. I'm sure you'll see more offerings from the three of us this year... you can save the date for Women Naked In The Woods - facilitated by Lauren and me - June 28 -30, 2024.

Women's Group Coaching: One Spot Left - is it for you?

I have one more spot available in the women's small group coaching circle that starts this Sunday - January 7th. This is an intimate group of six women, meeting for six sessions on Sunday evenings on zoom, from 5:30 to 7:30 pm Eastern, and the investment is $450. Each session will begin with a check in and a brief teaching piece, and then each person will have one session devoted to supporting them individually. Much of the work we will do in this circle will be about releasing shame and building resiliency and support for one another.

Some of the topics/themes that we will be working with:

  • Healing sexual trauma
  • Building erotic confidence
  • Dealing with rejection sensitivity
  • Expressing desire
  • Staying in the body while receiving pleasure
  • Feeling the emotions fully and releasing blockages to doing so
  • Being more clear with boundaries
  • Finding a more solid sense of self worth
  • Body image issues

If you are interested in this program, just email me and I'll send you the details on how to get started.

Last day for Naked By The Fire Earlybird Tickets is Jan 8th

This event is likely to sell out - registrations are coming in quickly!

Women Naked By The Fire - In Person Mini Retreat & Potluck
An in-person sisterhood mini-retreat in Stanton, KY - created to stoke the flames of your inner fire in a supportive and safe circle.

Corrected Discount Code

For those of you trying to register for this life changing workshop, use the code "40YEARS!" at checkout to give you $100 off the tuition.

Discovering Your Body Erotic - In Person - Lexington, KY
Join me for this clothes on weekend workshop, in person in Lexington Kentucky!

New Year's Reflection Process

I'm sending this link again because its still just barely the first week of the year, and this process is very nourishing for reflection and contemplation. You'll need to be logged in as a (free) member to see it - you don't need to be a premium member to access it.

New Year’s Reflection Process
A process for New Year’s Reflection and dreaming into the year to come

Love to you!